I believe that everyone carries their solutions within themselves.

Coaching and counselling for couples and individuals navigating crises in life and love or challenging relationships

A place to heal, find clarity, regain your confidence and rediscover your strength in love and life and create healthy and fulfilling relationships that last. A safe space where people come to find strength, community, and a fresh start.
If you are at a crossroads in life or in love, I’m here to guide you with compassion, empathy, and clarity. Whether you are rebuilding your relationship, navigating a divorce, or finding the courage to leave an unhealthy relationship, you can heal, grow, and create the healthy love you deserve.
My mission is to help you move from a draining relationship or marriage to building a loving relationship with yourself and as a result, with your partner - one that feels safe and empowering, filled with trust, empathy and joy.
I work entirely online via Zoom and sessions are available in English, German, and Danish.

Together New - Starting over, together

Because every fresh start deserves support

Guiding you through life’s challenges with compassion and clarity

Welcome to Together New

There was a time when I felt lost, numb, and disconnected from myself and life. After years of self-doubt and isolation, I realised that starting over was not a sign of failure, but of courage.

Together New was born from that moment of truth — a space built on empathy, respect, and understanding. It’s a reminder that no matter how lost you feel, you are never alone, and it’s never too late to have a fresh start.

I am a communication scientist and a certified Couples Therapist, Systemic Coach, and Psychotherapeutic Counsellor, dedicated to helping you reconnect with yourself. When you build a stronger relationship with yourself, you naturally create deeper, healthier connections with others.

I support individuals and couples who feel stuck in conflict, crisis, or disconnection. Together, we work to rebuild trust, strengthen emotional bonds and intimacy, and create relationships that feel fulfilling and authentic again. My approach empowers you to trust yourself, care for yourself, and take inspired steps toward a life that aligns with your values and visions.

I work with people who are ready to consciously work on themselves, heal, or navigate the end of an unhealthy relationship or marriage. My areas of expertise include relationship crises, grief, discrimination, fertility challenges, decision-making, breakup, and divorce.

My mission is to provide flexible, professional, and compassionate counselling and coaching that is culturally sensitive and inclusive, welcoming everyone who is ready to grow and transform their relationships.

This quote is really true, because I have started over many times and I know that you can do it too. F. Scott Fitzgerald said: “It’s never too late to become who you want to be. I hope you live a life that you are proud of, and if you find that you are not, I hope you have the strength to start over.”

In doubt, fearful, stuck, unhappy, numb, paralyzed? Don't worry, you have come to the right place! I am here for you and I support you holistically.

✴ I listen to your individual needs.
✴ I will support and empower you in the times of crisis.
✴ I help you with making emotional decisions.
✴ I empower you in discovering your strength and self-esteem and help you with your next chapter.
✴ There will never be a "right" time for change, but it is possible when you are ready.

More Clarity

When you are overwhelmed, you lose focus and can't make healthy choices. Get out of the chaos in your mind and make the changes you deserve.

Healthier You

Once you get a healthier relationship with yourself, your other relationships will follow.

Healthier Relationship

When you are confident and happy, you attract the kind of relationships that are healthy, empowering and fulfilling.

If you are struggling with a relationship or a life crisis, standing at a crossroads, feeling overwhelmed, stuck, unfulfiled, upset, Paralyzed or numb, you are not alone and it is possible to change your situation.

I know, because I have been there too.

✴ Strengthening the bond, rebuilding trust, improving communication, and saving your marriage/relationship, when you feel disconnected or stuck.

✴ Identifying and leaving an unhealthy relationship, when you are in doubt.

✴ Healing after a divorce/breakup, guiding you to build a loving and fulfilling relationship that you thrive in.

✴ Decision-making, when it feels impossible to make a choice.

 

✴ Grief counselling, when you need someone to support you through the pain.

✴ Struggling with regret and rumination about past choices.

 

✴ Experiencing discrimination, lack of belonging and racism. 

Don't worry, you are in the right place!

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Stay or Leave? A free workbook helping you finding clarity & confidence in your decision

Feeling unsure about your relationship? This free workbook will help you find clarity and confidence for your next step. Sometimes it is hard to figure out if we are in a healthy and loving relationship/marriage or if it actually would be better to leave. When we are overwhelmed, stressed or under pressure, we don't make healthy choices. We might make a decision based on fear. This free workbook will help you with realising the reality of your current relationship.

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Find Peace and Reconnect With Yourself and Heal After a Breakup or Divorce

If your heart feels heavy after the end of a relationship, you are not alone. Healing takes time, and it begins with giving yourself the space to feel, reflect, and rediscover who you are without your partner.

This free workbook, Healing After a Breakup or Divorce, is your gentle guide to help you move through the pain and begin your new chapter with clarity and self-compassion. Inside, you will find reflection prompts, questions, and guided exercises to help you release what no longer serves you and rebuild your confidence from within.

Whether you are still processing your emotions or ready to step into a new chapter, this workbook will help you reconnect with your strength, your peace, and your sense of self.

What is inside:

You will find journaling prompts to help you process your emotions, a reflection section, exercises, workseheet, affirmation, clarity questions to help you rediscover your purpose and joy, as well as encouragement to remind you that you are worthy of love and happiness.

Take the first step toward healing today. 🌸

Are you ready to invenst in yourself or in your relationship?

You don’t have to face racism and discrimination alone.

Do you often feel unseen, misunderstood or not taken seriously when you share your experiences of racism or discrimination? Whether it is subtle or direct, these experiences can leave deep emotional marks and a sense of isolation. You deserve to be heard, supported, and understood. I’m here to offer a safe, compassionate space where you can process your feelings, rebuild confidence, and find healing.

Is it time to renew and reinvent your relationship?

Are you longing to bring back the closeness, trust, and joy you once shared? Every relationship goes through seasons, and sometimes it takes courage to admit that things need to change. Whether you are facing communication challenges, emotional distance, or recurring conflicts, couples therapy can help you rebuild connection and create a relationship that truly supports both of you. Together, we will explore new ways to understand each other, heal old wounds, and grow stronger as a team.

Finding your way through grief and loss

Losing someone or something meaningful can leave you feeling lost, empty, or unsure how to move forward. Grief can be overwhelming, and it’s okay to need support as you navigate it. Whether you have lost a loved one, a relationship, or a part of your life that once gave you purpose, you don’t have to face it alone. I’m here to offer a safe, compassionate space where you can express your feelings, find understanding, and begin to heal at your own pace.

Finding hope and healing through fertility challenges

Struggling to conceive can be an emotional and isolating experience. Whether you are in the middle of fertility treatments, coping with the pain of miscarriage, or coming to terms with the possibility of not having a child of your own, it is completely natural to feel overwhelmed. You don’t have to face this journey alone. I’m here to offer a compassionate space where you can share your feelings, find emotional support, and explore what healing and hope look like for you, whatever your next step may be.

Breaking free from unhealthy relationship patterns

Do you find yourself repeating the same painful cycles in relationships, facing manipulation, abuse, or codependency? It can be exhausting and confusing to keep ending up in situations that hurt you, even when all you want is love and peace. You don’t have to go through this alone. Together, we can explore the patterns that keep you stuck, heal the wounds beneath them, and help you build healthier, more fulfilling connections.

Torn between staying and leaving? Discover what is truly right for you in your relationship.

Are you feeling stuck between wanting to save your relationship and wondering if it is truly worth saving? When love feels uncertain, it can be painful to know what the right choice is. You might be questioning your feelings, your partner’s intentions, or whether things can really change. You don’t have to figure it out alone. Together, we can explore what is happening beneath the surface, gain clarity about your needs and values, and help you make a decision that feels right for you and your future.

Date with Ease and Confidence

Tired of overthinking every message or second-guessing yourself on dates? This coaching experience helps you release the pressure, trust yourself, and attract love from a place of genuine confidence. You will learn how to show up as your most authentic, magnetic self so dating feels fun, natural, and aligned again.

Together, we will uncover what’s been holding you back, shift your mindset, and build the self-assurance that makes dating feel fun again. You’ll learn how to show up as your most authentic, magnetic self, communicate with ease, and create real connections that feel aligned with who you are. No more games, no more anxiety, just clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of excitement about finding love.


Togetherness Today

A safe space to heal, share, and grow beyond discrimination and racism

If you have ever felt marginalised, misunderstood, or discriminated against because of your background, you are not alone. This community is a supportive space where people from diverse backgrounds can come together to share their experiences, find understanding, and begin to heal. Here, your story matters. Together, we will explore ways to reclaim your voice, build resilience, and grow in a community that truly sees and values you.

Healing after heartbreak: finding your strength after a breakup or divorce

When a relationship ends, it can feel like your whole world has fallen apart. You might feel stuck, devastated, or unsure how to move forward. Whether you are grieving the loss of a partner, struggling to rebuild your confidence, or trying to rediscover who you are, you don’t have to go through it alone. I’m here to help you process the pain, find clarity, and begin creating a new chapter filled with peace, confidence, purpose, and self-love.

Finding clarity and confidence in life’s big decisions

Do you find yourself stuck in endless pros and cons lists, second-guessing every choice, or postponing making decisions because you are afraid of making the wrong one? It is completely normal to feel paralysed when the stakes feel high. Together, we can quiet the noise of fear and doubt, connect with your inner wisdom, and help you make decisions that feel aligned with who you truly are and what you want for your life.

Guiding you through life’s challenges with compassion and clarity, and helping you find peace, strength, and love - within yourself and your relationships.

Hi, I'm Lamis.

I'm a Couples Therapist, Systemic Coach, Psychotherapeutic Counsellor and the founder of Together New.

I help you develop a meaningful connection with yourself, so you can better understand how you create and maintain your relationships.

I don’t have all the answers. I’m not a know-it-all. I’m not perfect. I make mistakes. I experience fear, regret, and self-doubt. These things make me flawed, but also human — just like everyone else.

Life doesn’t always go the way we plan. The good news is, you can change the way you respond to challenges. I know what it feels like to face deep change and uncertainty. From living as a refugee at the age of 13 to building a life across six countries, I have learned that healing and growth are always possible, no matter where and when you start.

The challenges I have faced have taught me resilience and empathy. They have shaped the way I now support others through their own struggles, helping them find strength, clarity, and peace.

I believe everyone deserves to feel safe, seen, and empowered in love and in life. My work combines compassion, understanding, and open-mindedness to help you heal and create the relationships you truly deserve.

What I promise you is my full commitment and attention — an honest and empathetic guide who helps you find your own answers in times of chaos, crisis, and despair. Having lived in six countries and speaking five languages fluently, I bring an open-minded, non-judgemental perspective to my work. Most importantly, I know that change is possible. It’s not easy, but it’s absolutely possible.

I know that life can get complicated. It can leave you feeling disconnected from yourself and your partner, and unsure where to turn. I help you reconnect, communicate openly, and build relationships rooted in trust, empathy, and joy. Together, we can bring peace, ease, and confidence back into your life. If you are ready to begin your own journey of healing and growth, I would be honoured to walk beside you, while you find the solutions that feel right for you.

I believe anyone can have the relationship of their dreams. It all begins with the relationship you have with yourself.

To have a loving and fulfiling relationship or marriage isn't just a dream and my sessions will help you to get there - step by step.